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Last night, a german friend of mine and I were watching The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, to let off some steam after a full day of studying. Needless to say, felt so guilty after for not studying at the time, but such is the mentality of a med student. As we watched the fires and fighting of U-boats and tug boats in the Atlantic, I paused the movie to ask my friend curiously of what they were taught about World War II.
She said they had to take 2 full years about every account of the War. She said that they were taught to hate themselves. That learning about it made them feel so badly about themselves, knowing what the generation before had done. She took solace in the fact that her great-grandfather never joined the Nazis, because he was a farmer, and when told to join, always put it off. He paid money to the local “recruiter” to postpone his enlisting.
She then asked me, if people still around the world hated them.
I did not know what to say. People don’t hate current day Germans, I think, just what has happened. But at the same time, I know families that to this day hate Germany. I know a family that threw out their toaster because they found out it was made by a German company. My own uncle, being Indian, refuses to buy a German anything because he feels like the government never fully made reparation or were sorry enough. Noticing my reluctance, she pressed upon me to tell her what I was thinking. It must have read on my face.
She asked, “What more can we do?” I asked what Germany has done since - I wanted to know in her own words. She said that the Germans are hard upon themselves the most. Any sign, any inkling of racism in a public figure was admonished. That the government gave up land and pays a lot of money to Israel yearly, still. That they are trying to do their best to get along with everyone.
She said that sometimes, she is jealous of Americans.
“Look how proud you all are. How proud you get to be of your country. We don’t. During the World Cup, we were actually doing well as a country. When everyone else had huge economical problems, it wasn’t as bad for us. But we couldn’t be proud of that. Look at the Swedish, with their flags everywhere. Why can’t we have our flags? During the cup, some Germans put up flags on their cars, and then felt guilty about it still. When we go abroad, we are sometimes afraid to say we are German. I hate feeling guilty all the time. “
This whole conversation seemed so sad, and harsh. Tears welled up in her eyes. And in mine. You could actually seen the pain on her face.
“Why do we still have to feel bad for what others did? Why?” she said.
And then I started thinking - these feelings are not foreign to Americans, either…






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